
As much as we’d love the church to be a perfect place, we realize it is still a work in progress. It’s more like a hospital for the hurting than a resort for the righteous.
Last week in our anxiety class, we learned about how to handle problem people and to show them the love of Christ. An audio recording and full teaching notes are below. In this episode, we talk about…
- Three types of people you will interact with, and a strategy for each
- Why God wants the church to be skilled at biblical counseling
- How to get control of your temper and cultivate patience
- What to do when someone has hurt you
- The secret of peace in every circumstance
This is part 6 of 8 in our “Anxious for Nothing” Bible Study, a series that will help you trust God and overcome worry and anxiety.
My notes and audio are below, or you can click this link to visit my podcast page and find an archive of the entire series. Thanks for listening!
PROBLEM PEOPLE AND PEACE IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES
ANXIETY CLASS – WEEK 6
1. Dealing with Problem People (1 Thess. 5:12-22)
• A series of instructions at the end of Paul’s letter
• The church is full of problems. See quote on p. 93.
• Three types of people are mentioned here: the unruly, fainthearted, and weak
• God wants the church to be skilled at counseling (Rom. 15:14; 2 Cor. 1:3-4).
• Understanding these three groups will help you.
• Know what to say “as fits the occasion” (Eph. 4:29)
2. The need for patience
• Having a “long fuse”
• It is a fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23)
• This could be mistreatment, provocation, or simple shortcomings. Remember how patient God has been with you! (Matt. 18:21-35)
3. Do not return evil for evil.
• You will be hurt. It’s not a matter of if, but when. Don’t lose heart. Let it go.
• The most painful of all is to be hurt by a friend (Ps. 41:9; 55:12-13; 109:4-5; see p. 102)
• Don’t seek revenge. God will repay (Rom. 12:17-21).
• What about “eye for an eye” (Ex. 21:24)? That’s instruction to the State (government), not individuals.
• “That’s not realistic!”
• What we should do instead – Matthew 5:43-48.
• What are some practical ways we can return evil with good? Be specific.
4. Peace in Every Circumstance (2 Thess. 3:16, 18)
• Human (worldly) peace is fragile and can quickly vanish
• God’s peace goes much deeper (see pp. 106-107)
• In the hospital waiting room
• The wicked enjoy no real peace. But God does have pity on them (Jonah 4:11; Mt. 23:37-39)
• Peace begins with Jesus, the Prince of Peace (Rom. 5:1). Do you have that peace?
Remember: You and I are trophies of God’s grace! (1 Tim. 1:12-14)



