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Pastor, Husband, Dad. Saved by Grace and a Servant of Jesus.
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Purpose in Pain

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When God allows pain, his desire is never to hurt you. Sometimes, it’s to prune you and make you more fruitful. It might be to humble you, or to discipline you, or to equip you to comfort others.

Sometimes, God just wants to get your attention. Maybe the Lord has already offered milder reminders and rebukes, and you have kept ignoring them. Now he’s left with no alternative but to discipline you. God loves you too much to allow to let you stay on your current flight path. He’s been calling out, “Mayday, Mayday. Abort, Abort. Don’t keep going this way!” But you turned of the warning alarm.

Now God is disciplining you. His discipline is not to hurt you, but as the Good Shepherd, he’s using his staff to push you back on the straight and narrow.

Hebrews 12:5–6 says, “And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.”

If you ever realize you have some unconfessed sin and are under God’s discipline, what should you do? Seek forgiveness and restoration by following the example of the psalmist. Psalm 130:7 says, “For with the Lord there is steadfast love, and with him is plentiful redemption.“

Not all pain is due to personal sin. It might simply be to lift our eyes off ourselves and upward, or to give us grace to better sympathize with others. Pain also has a purifying effect in our own lives, challenging us to break bad habits, rid ourselves of idolatry, and offer heartfelt repentance.

I talk more about this in my sermon, “Purpose in Pain,” which I preached several months ago at Calvary Church. In this lesson, we learn…

  • Some of the reasons God allows us to suffer
  • Two judges you’ve probably never heard of
  • God disciplines us to grow us
  • Warning against idols of the heart

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Which Way, Lord?

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“Lord, if you want me to marry this woman, give me a sign.”

“God, if it’s your will for me to attend this college, guide this coin flip.”

“Father, if this is the car you want me to buy, make it clear right now.”

When we’re not sure of God’s will, it might be tempting to ask for a sign. Signs can be helpful. They can also be misread. How do we know for sure whether a sign is from God, or what it’s even showing? Given how subjective most signs today are, can we have total confidence it was from the Lord? Is there a risk we might read it through the lens of what we want it to say and already decided to do?

When my counseling professor in seminary Dr. John Street came to the topic of decision-making, he observed that almost every single counseling case involves decision making. Furthermore, he said “It’s amazing how mystical people are!”

Some people are quick to make decisions. They are impulsive and emotional, doing whatever feels right without stopping to consult God. Others have the opposite problem. They look at a decision from every possible angle, endlessly mulling it over with the “paralysis of analysis.”

Inevitably, when the topic of knowing God’s will comes up, Judges chapter 6 is mentioned — where Gideon lays out his fleece. It’s a fascinating story, but I would be careful about using this as normative for how we are supposed to discern God’s will today. It’s important to remember that some passages in the Bible are prescriptive (timeless principles to obey) while other passages are descriptive (an accurate reporting of the facts). In my opinion, this part of the Gideon story belongs in the latter. It is descriptive, simply describing what Gideon did, but not making a value statement on whether this was wise or unwise.

Here’s a more reliable way to make decisions. First, pray to the Lord. Then, study the scriptures to see what they say. Next, seek wise counsel from trusted mentors. It can also be helpful to watch and learn from the example of others, following in their footsteps when you see them making wise decisions. If you do all of this and God seems to be giving you a green light, then I believe he works quite often through your desires and abilities, and wants you to act with confidence and a clear conscience.

We get into this subject more in my sermon called “Which Way, Lord?” on Judges 6, which I preached several months ago at Calvary Church. In this passage, we learn…

  • How to avoid both paralysis and mysticism in our decision-making
  • How the Midianites bullied an entire nation
  • The jealousy of God
  • Gideon’s fleece
  • Five principles of godly decision-making

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Here are some other sermons I’ve preached on the topic of decision-making…

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Song of Deliverance

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Last year marked the 80th anniversary of the Battle of the Bulge — the last major German offensive in World War II and a costly one to Allied forces. Many veterans were quiet about the atrocities of war when they returned home. But years later, PFC “Sparky” Kisse was interviewed by his son and asked what it was like to fight against the Germans.

Kisse said, “We had no idea where we were…. You’re so scared you don’t know whether to run, sit down and cry, or what. But once the fighting starts and you hear the bullets, the fear leaves you and it’s nothing…”

That’s a very humble way to say it, but he’s right that when the battle begins, you have to move forward and push through the fear — out of loyalty to your country and love for your family.

Judges 5 is the song of an important battle in Israelite history. it includes an interesting story how some tribes ran away from the battle, while other tribes ran toward it. By way of application, Christians are in a war too. We’re not called to pick up literal weapons in the name of Christ. Peter tried that once, pulling out his sword and slicing off the ear of the high priest’s servant. But Jesus said, “No more of this! Put your sword into its sheath.” And he touched his ear and healed him (Lk. 22:51).

Christianity is not a jihad-like religion of brute force. Quite the opposite. Our Lord said “love your enemies, bless those who curse you.” But we are in a battle — a spiritual battle — against an invisible enemy. And no one is allowed to sit this one out. We, too, must accept the call to war and offer ourselves willingly for the sake of Christ.

Stay alert, brothers and sisters! Go about your day with a combat readiness. Put on the full armor of God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Accept God’s call on your life and serve him today. Remember you are never alone. “So we are always of good courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith, not by sight” (2 Cor. 5:6).

Several months ago, I preached on Judges 5, and we looked at these themes more closely. In this study, we learned…

  • The Bible contains many types of literature
  • What to do when you feel trapped and afraid
  • Christians are engaged in a kind of “holy war”
  • The benefit of great songs to commemorate great events

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A Call to Courage

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Where are the men? Is there no one who will step up and lead God’s people? This seems to be the question Deborah asks in Judges chapter 4.

Some people read the book of Judges and see Deborah’s leadership as proof there is no distinction between male and female spiritual leadership. From their point of view, women are just as qualified as men to serve as pastors, elders, and spiritual leaders in the church. I’d suggest the very opposite is the case.

When Deborah is mentioned in Judges 4, the author seems to be going out of his way to say something is amiss. The Hebrew text literally speaks of “Deborah — a woman — a prophetess — the wife of Lapidoth” (!) sitting under her palm tree, judging God’s people. While Deborah is a wise and godly woman, the text seems to be saying there’s a problem with this whole picture.

Eventually, Deborah summons Barak, who agrees to lead the army reluctantly. He is willing to go on one condition — that Deborah goes with him. Like the cowardly lion, his behavior is so embarrassing that Deborah says his legacy will be marked with a footnote that a woman brought victory that day. “The road on which you are going will not lead to your glory, for the LORD will sell Sisera into the hand of a woman” (4:9).

I was talking with a friend several months ago who helps provide coaching services to churches in transition. Sometimes these are called “replant” or “revitalization” opportunities. This friend said most of our California churches are either plateaued or declining. There is a need for more pastors and more leaders. And then he said this – “the cupboards are bare.”

You would hope with all the Christian colleges, seminaries, megachurches, and smaller size churches that there would be a long line of men waiting to be trained and deployed. The opposite is true. The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few.

Incidentally, this is why our support of ministries like Gateway Seminary, The Masters Seminary, and The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary is so important. These schools are coming alongside churches to help raise and train the future generation of leaders.

This is not to say women do not have an essential role to play in the local church. There are so many valuable ways they use their gifts to glorify God and edify the body. That’s a conversation for another day. I firmly believe the apostles taught a complementary role for men and women in the church and in the home.

When I began preaching through Judges at Calvary, I entitled our series, “Arise” for this very reason. Judges 4:6 says, “Has not the LORD commanded you, Go?” Then in v. 14, Deborah says to Barak, “Up! For this is the day the LORD has given Sisera.” Over in 5, this desperate cry for leadership is even memorialized in song. “Arise, Barak! Lead away your captives.” The church can grow complacent over time and forget the urgent call to action. Let us arise, preach the gospel, and shepherd God’s people!

Is there something God is calling you to do? Have you been delaying out of fear? Maybe it’s getting baptized, or making some parenting changes, or returning to in-person worship services, or even answering a call to ministry? Stepping out can be scary. But do not fear. God will be with you!

Here’s the audio from the sermon I preached on Judges 4 at Calvary Church. Thanks for reading…and listening!

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Fatal Error

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For fifteen years, my family lived in Yucca Valley — north of Palm Springs in the high desert. The desert seems harsh and almost otherworldly at first. But as you get to know it, it takes on a striking beauty and serenity. I’ve shared on this blog over the years some of the desert hikes I enjoyed like Skull Rock, Johnny Lang Canyon, and Devil’s Punchbowl.

One of the things you have to get used to is how sharp everything is! The leaves of Joshua Trees are like spikes. Reptiles such as the horned lizard have a thick, spiny skin. Roadrunners have sharp beaks to penetrate their prey. And one cactus in particular is known for its extremely sharp thorns – the cholla cactus.

Cholla cactus, sometimes called “teddy bear” cholla, looks soft and fuzzy from a distance. But up close, you can’t miss the sharp, inch-long spikes. It’s even been called “jumping cholla” because you need only barely brush against it to have it latch on to your skin or clothes. Ouch!

When hiking near cholla cactus, be prepared to pick up little balls of cholla on your hiking boots. You have to be careful when removing it (preferably with tweezers or a pocket knife) or you could be in for a painful shock.

In Judges 2, God says some of the Canaanites and their idols would be permitted to remain in the land of Israel to poke against them. “You have not obeyed my voice…So now I say, I will not drive them out before you, but they shall become thorns in your sides, and their gods shall be a snare to you.” (Judges 2:2-3).

The idols of Canaan, like the barbs of a cholla cactus, would cause much pain and heartache. Much of the book of Judges describes the fulfillment of this curse. I preached through the Book of Judges last year at Calvary Church. In chapter two, we learned …

  • How Christians should respond to tragedy, such as the Palisades Fire we had just experienced
  • Who exactly is the “angel of the Lord”?
  • How apostasy can creep in to a local church
  • The Cycle of Sin we will see in the book of Judges
  • How God has shielded us from his own wrath through Christ

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