Category Archives: Suffering

Purpose in Pain

When God allows pain, his desire is never to hurt you. Sometimes, it’s to prune you and make you more fruitful. It might be to humble you, or to discipline you, or to equip you to comfort others.

Sometimes, God just wants to get your attention. Maybe the Lord has already offered milder reminders and rebukes, and you have kept ignoring them. Now he’s left with no alternative but to discipline you. God loves you too much to allow to let you stay on your current flight path. He’s been calling out, “Mayday, Mayday. Abort, Abort. Don’t keep going this way!” But you turned of the warning alarm.

Now God is disciplining you. His discipline is not to hurt you, but as the Good Shepherd, he’s using his staff to push you back on the straight and narrow.

Hebrews 12:5–6 says, “And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.”

If you ever realize you have some unconfessed sin and are under God’s discipline, what should you do? Seek forgiveness and restoration by following the example of the psalmist. Psalm 130:7 says, “For with the Lord there is steadfast love, and with him is plentiful redemption.

Not all pain is due to personal sin. It might simply be to lift our eyes off ourselves and upward, or to give us grace to better sympathize with others. Pain also has a purifying effect in our own lives, challenging us to break bad habits, rid ourselves of idolatry, and offer heartfelt repentance.

I talk more about this in my sermon, “Purpose in Pain,” which I preached several months ago at Calvary Church. In this lesson, we learn…

  • Some of the reasons God allows us to suffer
  • Two judges you’ve probably never heard of
  • God disciplines us to grow us
  • Warning against idols of the heart

Here’s the audio, now available on the podcast:

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Trust the Lord at All Times

Psalm 62:8 Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. Selah.

I took this photo this afternoon from a hilltop in West Hills, looking southeast toward the Palisades fire. This is the same fire that destroyed Pacific Palisades a few days ago. Now it has crested the mountain, and like a hungry beast, is heading toward the communities of Brentwood and Encino along the 101 and 405.

It’s hard to believe these wildfires just started on Tuesday. Our hearts go out to the people of Pacific Palisades, Altadena, and others who have been completely devastated. Other areas face heavy losses and evacuations, and many are still on high alert. Those of us in the San Fernando Valley are literally in a “ring of fire” with various fires burning nearly all directions. Thankfully, several have been contained and mitigated, but others continue to be a threat, and there is still more wind in the forecast.

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We all have suspicions of how these fires started. We all have frustrations with the mismanagement and poor planning by city and state officials. These leaders need to be held accountable. Meanwhile, we continue to pray for those in harm’s way and thank God for the incredible skill and courage of first responders.

Our prayer is not only that God would provide physical safety, but that he would use this tragedy to turn hearts toward him. Unfortunately, sometimes it takes a disaster to get our attention and help us think about eternal things. It would be wonderful to see a genuine spiritual revival in Los Angeles. So many have lost so much. Early estimates say this will be the costliest wildfire event in US history, and it’s not even done yet. People have lost not only homes, businesses, schools, and church buildings, but tragically, some lost their lives.

One of the most jarring scenes this week was seeing a street full of luxury cars, all empty, as people had run for their lives to escape the flames. Firefighters had to send in bulldozers to push the cars out of the way so they could get emergency vehicles to the front lines of the fire. In just a matter of hours, these people’s lives were turned upside down. How quickly we can lose everything!

Jesus says it this way: “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. (Matthew 6:19–21)

Earlier in the week, I wrote a prayer and shared it on social media. Please join me in praying this over our city.

Father in Heaven, you control the wind and the waves. In times of disaster, we remember how frail we are. We pray your protection for the firefighters, and for the tens of thousands in evacuation zones. Please cause the winds to die down. In times of chaos and panic, cause people to consider the frailty of life and look to you for strength. This life so quickly passes by along with all its treasures. Set eternity on people’s hearts, and be glorified today even through this tragedy. In Jesus’ name, Amen

Death’s Hard to Take

Last Friday, I officiated a memorial service for one of our members, Joe Brown, as well as an interment service at Forest Lawn Memorial Park in Glendale. During the memorial service, Joe’s sister-in-law Rhonda shared a beautiful poem that she has written. After the service, I asked if I could get a copy, and she gave me not only the poem, but a copy of an entire poetry book she has written! She said she belongs to a local poetry club and often gets to share Christian themes in an otherwise secular setting. I hope you enjoy this as much as I did…

Whether it comes in sudden pounce
Or makes a long and visible approach,
Death’s hard to take.
It stuns us, breaks our hearts,
Leaves us bereft of body’s sweet tangibility,
Drives laughter and smiles out of reach.

But we are marked for saving,
Who look to the Lamb,
Who paint his blood on the doorposts
of our hearts.
Death seizes our feeble flesh,
But our souls are safe.

Here in the mercy of God we hide,
Sheltered and kept secure,
Passed over when judgement comes.

Messiah, Messiah,
I cling to your cross
While the angel of death roars by!

The School of Suffering

Suffering is the gift no one wants, but everyone needs. So let us prayerfully enroll in the school of suffering, expecting to learn valuable lessons along the way.

I love this statement by W. Mackintosh Mackay:

“Experience,’ said a great preacher, ‘teaches fools, but she graduates saints.’ Her graduation ceremony, it must be admitted, is often the close of a long and hard curriculum. If you read the record of our great writers, both secular and sacred, you will be surprised to find of how many of them it was true that they were great sufferers. Of more than poets it is true that ‘they learnt in suffering what they taught in song’. The fragrant name they possess in literature was won out of ‘great tribulation’. The hymns we sing with such comfort to others were born out of bitter hours of pain and disappointment. Our hymnology is largely a martyrology. The men whose words will never die, often died themselves prematurely, or if they lived, lived in what was a living death.” (Expositor’s Dictionary of Texts, v. 2, p. 996)

Just as so many great hymns of the faith, and great men and women of church history, were borne out of suffering, so we can expect trials if we wish to be useful instruments in the Redeemer’s hands. In this week’s lesson we learn…

  • How suffering helps us minister to others
  • How God redeems our suffering for his good purposes
  • The kind of trials we face where comfort is needed
  • What’s the difference between a trial and temptation?
  • An encouraging reminder that for the believer, all suffering is temporary!

Here’s the audio link:

And here’s a copy of the handout:


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Great is Thy Faithfulness (Lamentations 3)

Have you ever hit “rock bottom” before God got finally got your attention? The nation of Israel did. This morning in our Bible Study Community, we did a one-lesson overview of the Book of Lamentations. I’d love to study this book more someday! Attendance was down a bit today with the bad weather, but not to worry, we recorded the lesson and you can listen along right here. In this passage, we learn…

  • That it’s OK to cry… and that many godly people have
  • The dazzling symmetry and poetry of Lamentations
  • How moments of shame can lead to repentance and renewal
  • Where Jeremiah drew hope in the midst of suffering

Here’s the audio link:

And here’s a copy of the handout:

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