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A call to love God

Today is the next installment in my series of posts on the mission statement of our church. As a reminder, our mission is “to make disciples of Jesus Christ who love God and love people, by reaching and teaching everyone.

I’ve already written on the importance of a clearly defined ministry goal and the definition of a disciple of Jesus Christ. Now we’ll move along to the marks of a genuine disciple.

There are two distinguishing marks of a disciple of Jesus. One is a love for God. The other is a love for people. If you claim to be a Christian, these two things should increasingly characterize your life.

Above all, a disciple must have a love for God. All other Christian virtues, emotions, and duties stem from this root of love. When a religious leader asked Jesus, “Which is the great commandment in the Law?” Jesus answered without hesitation that it is a love for God. He said, “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind” (Matt. 22:37). This is a genuine, all-consuming, love for God that is so strong that all other relationships, by comparison, are viewed with contempt (Matt. 10:37).

Jonathan Edwards calls love “the chief of all affections, and fountain of all other affections” and believes “the essence of all true religion lies in holy love.” He goes on to say,

From a vigorous, affectionate, and fervent love to God, will necessarily arise other religious affections; hence will arise an intense hatred and abhorrence of sin, fear of sin, and a dread of God’s displeasure, gratitude to God for his goodness, complacence and joy in God, when God is graciously and sensibly present, and grief when he is absent, and a joyful hope when a future enjoyment of God is expected, and fervent zeal for the glory of God. (Religious Affections)

Likewise, Alexander Strauch writes,

Above all things, we should seek to increase our knowledge and enjoyment of Christ and deepen our love for him (Phil. 3:8-14). After all, the deeper our love for him the more we will become like him in love and the more we will be able to teach others to love. (Leading With Love, 30)

Love of God is the greatest commandment, the essence of true religion, the fountain of religious affection, and the mark of a true disciple. How is your love for God? Is it growing or waning? Have you, like the Ephesians, begun to leave your first love (Rev. 2:4)? Consider the following questions:

  • Are you growing in your knowledge of God? We can’t expect to love Someone we don’t know.
  • Are you growing in your fellowship with God? We can’t expect to love Someone we don’t spend time with.
  • Are you growing in your obedience to God? We can’t expect to love Someone we ignore.
  • Are you growing in your disdain for sin? We can’t expect to love Someone who we enjoy rejecting and offending.
  • Are you growing in your appreciation for the cross? We can’t expect to love Someone if we forget their greatest demonstration of love toward us (Rom. 5:8).
  • Are you sure that you are a Christian? We can’t expect to love God unless He has first loved us (1 Jn. 4:19).

How marvelous is our God, and how worthy of our love! Let us develop daily a deeper love for God in heart, soul, mind and strength. Let us be satisfied with Him, enthralled with Him, and completely devoted to Him. May He become our portion, our passion, and the sole object of our affection. In so doing, we will prove to be Christ’s disciples.

Inland Empire Meeting

In church life, meetings are necessary (I’ll refrain from calling them a “necessary evil”). But we should never have meetings just for the sake of having meetings; time is too precious. And as much as possible, leaders should try not to make meetings long and boring.

Meetings, like every other aspect of church ministry, are an opportunity to worship God. They should be conducted joyfully, peacefully, and for the purpose of edification. And I believe this was accomplished at the Inland Empire Association annual meeting last week.

On Tuesday, Oct. 28, I and another family from our church attended the annual meeting for our Southern Baptist region. Here are three things I appreciated:

  1. Hospitality. This year’s meeting was hosted by First Baptist Church (Primera Iglesia Bautista) of Moreno Valley. This church did a fantastic job of showing Christian hospitality. Young and old were working side-by-side to serve all the guests. No detail was overlooked. Parking lot attendants waved flashlights, greeting people and offering directions. A delicious Mexican meal was catered, complete with chips and salsa at every table. Tables were set up outside in the courtyard to create a nice ‘alfresco’ dining experience. Servers were standing by, offering coffee, and taking our plates as soon as we were finished. The whole atmosphere was relaxing and conducive for fellowship, which brings me to the second point.

  2. Relationships. If our association just wanted to give an annual update, they could save a lot of time and money by e-mailing everyone the Book of Reports. But that would miss one of the most vital elements of ministry: building relationships. One of the highlights of last week’s meeting was carpooling with the Poes from our church, then visiting with Pastor Pete and his assistant Doug during dinner. Pete is a pastor in Ontario, and it was a delight to learn about his church and his passion for VBS and prison ministry. It was also nice to briefly see Walter Price from Fellowship in the Pass, David Sqyres from Palms Baptist Church, Tony Brown from One Eighty Ministries in Joshua Tree, and Rex Shaver and his assistant Michael from Wonder Valley Community Church.

  3. Organization. The meeting had a tight schedule, and for the most part, they did a good job sticking to it. From what I could tell, every report was limited to 3 minutes. These were interspersed with some congregational singing and a video presentation. The music was appropriately upbeat, though I would have appreciated a more cross-centered emphasis in the lyrics. Reports were pre-printed in the book, along with a calendar of events for the upcoming year. It was all sort of a whirlwind, but I think it was just enough to give us a sampling of what God is doing across the region. Some of the reports were repetitive from last year, which might discourage people from attending year after year, but thankfully the meeting only lasted two hours total. I wouldn’t agree philosophically with everything these churches are doing, but it did illustrate the diversity of the Body of Christ and the importance of engaging the lost in each community.

Overall, it was a good meeting. I think our Director of Missions did a fine job planning and executing the event. I’d encourage others in our association to attend next year. Hopefully, we’ll be back at First Baptist Church for more of those tamales!

What is a “disciple”?

In my October 17 post, I introduced the new mission statement of our church: “to make disciples of Jesus Christ who love God and love people, by reaching and teaching everyone.”

Making disciples is not just the mission of our local church. It’s the mission of every church across the world, and of every Christian who is part of the church. Simply put, believers are here to make disciples (see Matt. 28:19).

When I hear the word “disciple,” I immediately think of Jesus’ colorful little band of followers along the shores of Galilee. While these men were called “disciples,” they were only the beginning. After the resurrection, Christ instructed them to go “make disciples” of all nations (Mt. 28:19). They were commanded to reproduce themselves. They began to fulfill this in the book of Acts (see Ac. 6:1; 14:21). And now, two thousand years later, we hold the baton. We must make disciples of the next generation.

But what exactly is a disciple? I believe the word “disciple” captures three ideas:

  • A disciple is a student of the Greatest Teacher. The word “disciple” (Gk. mathetes) literally means a pupil, learner, or student. We are students of the great Rabbi Jesus, who alone has the words of eternal life (Jn. 6:68). But the goal of any “disciple” was never merely intellectual knowledge to pass an exam. A student was like an apprentice. He was expected to increasingly imitate his master. Thus Jesus said, “A pupil is not above his teacher; but everyone, after he has been fully trained, will be like his master” (Lk. 6:40). To be a disciple of Jesus Christ is to follow Him, listen to Him, and walk in His footsteps, becoming increasingly holy, just as He is holy (1 Pet. 1:16).
  • A disciple is a sinner rescued by the Greatest Savior. Jesus was not just the Jewish version of Confucious or Socrates. He was more than just a wise teacher of philosphy and ethics. Jesus actually came to “serve, and to give His life a ransom for many” (Mk. 10:45). As the pefect Lamb of God, He came to lay down His own life as a substitute for our sins. To be a disciple of Jesus Christ is to admit our sin and look to Christ alone for salvation. That’s why Christ freely invited people who were weighed down with the burden of sin to “come to Me, all who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Mt. 11:28).
  • A disciple is a slave of the Greatest Master. “What?” you say, “A slave?!” Yes, that’s right. Christians are slaves of Christ. Jesus was very clear that there is a cost to become His disciple. “If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own live, he cannot be My disciple. Whoever does not carry his own cross after Me cannot be My disciple … none of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his possessions” (Lk. 14:26-27, 33). Wow. Those are strong words. Having second thoughts about this whole “discipleship” thing? Just remember that the alternative to serving Christ is not freedom. It is serving another master: sin. And while Christ is a benevolent Dictator – always kind and fair – sin is the cruelest of masters.

So when Jesus instructs us to “make disciples” in Matthew 28, He’s calling the church to teach people to follow Jesus, invite people to be saved through Jesus, and admonish people to become slaves of Jesus.

Sound impossible? By any human standard, it would be. But Jesus began His Great Commission with an equally great promise: “All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth” (Mt. 28:18). Christ has all the spiritual firepower necessary to make this mission successful. So let’s roll.

Our mission

This fall, our church has been asking the question, “What is the mission of our church?” In other words, what is the target, the overarching purpose, the unifying statement, that describes who we are to be and what we are here to do? What has Christ entrusted to us that will determine our faithfulness to Him on the day of judgment? (Mt. 25:21)

Developing a sense of God-given purpose can greatly help the maturity and development of a church. In his book Comeback Churches, Ed Stetzer notes, “Comeback leaders agreed that having a clear and compelling vision was foundational in the transformation of their churches. Casting the vision with other leaders and with the congregation was an integral part of their leadership. Through vision casting, a sense of unity developed as other leaders embraced a new sense of urgency about church growth and reaching the lost” (p. 45).

After much prayer, research, and discussion, our leaders have arrived at the following mission statement:

“Our mission is to make disciples of Jesus Christ who love God and love people, by reaching and teaching everyone.”

We’re now beginning to share this statement with our congregation and collectively thinking through ways we can apply it practically.

We believe this statement is faithful to Christ’s Great Commission (Mt. 28:18-20), while giving a snapshot of a true disciple and a method of how discipleship must be done. We believe it is short enough to be memorable, yet long enough to say something of value. In the coming weeks, I would like to break it down into smaller parts, examining one phrase at a time.

Our prayer is that God would be pleased to use our church and this mission statement to advance His kingdom for His fame and glory.

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Is the term ‘Southern Baptist’ a stumbling block?

The church that I pastor is Southern Baptist. But the funny thing is, we’re not in the South. I remember being at a conference last April back in Kentucky and told someone I pastored a Southern Baptist Church in California. With a puzzled expression he replied, “You mean they have Southern Baptists out there?!” So, what’s in a name? Ed Stetzer has just released some new polling data from pastors about the term ‘Southern Baptist’:

Among Southern Baptist pastors, 7 percent strongly agreed – and another 20 percent somewhat agreed – with the statement, “Having the name ‘Southern’ in the ‘Southern Baptist Convention’ is a hindrance to the work of SBC churches.” Forty-one percent strongly disagreed with the statement while 27 percent somewhat disagreed and 5 percent “don’t know.”

To further clarify opinions on the denomination’s name, Southern Baptist pastors were also asked their level of agreement with the statement, “Having the name ‘Southern’ in the ‘Southern Baptist Convention’ is a hindrance to the work of SBC churches outside of the South.” As the focus shifted to Southern Baptist congregations outside the convention’s historic strongholds, 16 percent of Southern Baptist pastors strongly agreed and 26 percent somewhat agreed, while 29 percent strongly disagreed and 21 percent somewhat disagreed. The remaining 9 percent “don’t know.”

In other words, 42% of pastors agree or strongly agree that the name ‘Southern’ is hindering the work of churches here in Southern California. Many churches in our area are trying to overcome this barrier by using names like “Pathway Church,” “Sandals Church,” and “Cloudbreak Church.” But according to research by Thom Rainer, pastors might actually be more paranoid about this than unbelievers:

Perhaps one of the biggest surprises in our study was that the name of the church had very little influence on reaching the unchurched. For the most part, neither the presence nor the absence of a denominational name influenced the formerly unchurched’s decision to join a church…Over 80% of the formerly unchurched told us that the church name had little or no influence upon their joining a particular church…Nearly 2/3 of those respondents indicated that the denominational name had a positive influence on their decision. (Surprising Insights from the Unchurched, pp. 38-39)

I don’t see anything sacrosanct about including the name of the denomination in the name of the church. Nor do I see any hard evidence that proves churches should be swift to change or avoid it. This is a decision each church must make. The most important thing is that whenever we have contact with the world, that they recognize us as churches that belong to Jesus Christ.