
At today’s Men’s Bible Study we discussed what it means to be a man, and how activities like baseball help develop valuable character qualities in our children. You can click here to listen. The audio will remain online for the next 30 days. I’ve attached my teaching notes below from today’s session.
1. Welcome & Prayer
2. Ministry Opportunities at Crossview
3. What is masculinity? What exactly does it even mean to be “a man”?
• John Piper: “At the heart of mature masculinity is a sense of benevolent responsibility to lead, provide for, and protect women in ways appropriate to a man’s differing relationships” (Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, p. 35).
• Our identity is closely connected to our roles. How does one define a pastor without explaining what a pastor does? Likewise, how does one define a man without looking at the roles a man has been assigned by God? Even Genesis 1-3 emphasizes the roles and responsibilities of a man versus a woman in the home and broader society.
4. Teaching Biblical Masculinity through Sports (pp. 90-96)
• Understanding Authority (Rom. 13:7)
• Self-Sacrifice (Mk. 10:45)
• Obedience to Authority (1 Pet. 2:13)
• Unfairness (Jer. 12:1)
• Failure (Ps. 102:4)
• Humility (Phil. 2:3)
• Resilience (Phil 3:13)
• Grace, Mercy, and Honor – Sportsmanship (Jude 3)
• Gratitude (Col. 3:15)
• Leadership and Encouragement (Heb. 10:25)
• The Absence of Fathers (Ps. 68:5-6)
5. Three Forms of Training (1 Thess. 5:14)
• Admonish the idle
• Encourage the fainthearted
• Help the weak
• Be patient with all
6. Discussion Questions
• If someone is not into baseball, what other activities could instill the same virtues and character qualities mentioned on pp. 90-96?
• What do you think of the statement that “Rules without relationship lead to rebellion.” Have you ever experienced this personally?
• What if it’s “too late”? Is it possible to start these parenting principles if our kids are already teenagers or even grown adults? What might look different?
• What stood out to you in the reading this month?
7. Prayer
8. Next Meeting. Saturday, Feb. 20, at 9am. Please read A Guide to Manhood, pp. 102-109. Highlight/write out two key statements that stood out to you. Then after that we will be returning to J.I. Packer’s Knowing God.


