
“Lord, if you want me to marry this woman, give me a sign.”
“God, if it’s your will for me to attend this college, guide this coin flip.”
“Father, if this is the car you want me to buy, make it clear right now.”
When we’re not sure of God’s will, it might be tempting to ask for a sign. Signs can be helpful. They can also be misread. How do we know for sure whether a sign is from God, or what it’s even showing? Given how subjective most signs today are, can we have total confidence it was from the Lord? Is there a risk we might read it through the lens of what we want it to say and already decided to do?
When my counseling professor in seminary Dr. John Street came to the topic of decision-making, he observed that almost every single counseling case involves decision making. Furthermore, he said “It’s amazing how mystical people are!”
Some people are quick to make decisions. They are impulsive and emotional, doing whatever feels right without stopping to consult God. Others have the opposite problem. They look at a decision from every possible angle, endlessly mulling it over with the “paralysis of analysis.”
Inevitably, when the topic of knowing God’s will comes up, Judges chapter 6 is mentioned — where Gideon lays out his fleece. It’s a fascinating story, but I would be careful about using this as normative for how we are supposed to discern God’s will today. It’s important to remember that some passages in the Bible are prescriptive (timeless principles to obey) while other passages are descriptive (an accurate reporting of the facts). In my opinion, this part of the Gideon story belongs in the latter. It is descriptive, simply describing what Gideon did, but not making a value statement on whether this was wise or unwise.
Here’s a more reliable way to make decisions. First, pray to the Lord. Then, study the scriptures to see what they say. Next, seek wise counsel from trusted mentors. It can also be helpful to watch and learn from the example of others, following in their footsteps when you see them making wise decisions. If you do all of this and God seems to be giving you a green light, then I believe he works quite often through your desires and abilities, and wants you to act with confidence and a clear conscience.
We get into this subject more in my sermon called “Which Way, Lord?” on Judges 6, which I preached several months ago at Calvary Church. In this passage, we learn…
- How to avoid both paralysis and mysticism in our decision-making
- How the Midianites bullied an entire nation
- The jealousy of God
- Gideon’s fleece
- Five principles of godly decision-making
Here’s the link:
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Here are some other sermons I’ve preached on the topic of decision-making…
- Praying with Power (Colossians 1:9)
- A Prayer for Spiritual Vision (Ephesians 1:15-23)
- To Eat or Not to Eat? (1 Corinthians 8)
- A Guide to Christian Liberty (Romans 14:1-7)




