Learn How to Use the Bible

A factory ground to a halt one afternoon when a piece of equipment suddenly failed. Desperate, the supervisor called a technician. The next morning, the technician arrived, took one look at the machine, grabbed a mallet, and gently tapped it in a certain spot. Immediately, the equipment began to turn again and was soon running as good as new.

When the supervisor received the bill, his jaw dropped. It was for $500. He demanded to see a full breakdown of expenses. The technician re-submitted the bill with this breakdown:

For hitting the machine, $1. For knowing where to hit, $499.

This story is a good reminder that life is not only about having the right tool, but also knowing how to use it. When it comes to the Bible, I’m convinced many people simply don’t know to use it.

When it comes to the Bible, I’m convinced many people simply don’t know to use it.

Some people treat the Bible as a self-help book. They believe it is there to fix our problems and help us live a happy, prosperous, stress-free life. While the Bible certainly offers joy, and contains many principles that will benefit our jobs and relationships, the problem with this approach is that it makes the Bible fundamentally about us, rather than about God and his glory.

Some people view the Bible as an encyclopedia or Google Search. They try to look up a particular word, and see if God has anything to say about it. The Bible does discuss things like anxiety, depression, sex, suffering, and more. But it’s not arranged in a simple alphabetical or topical order. This leads to confusion if we don’t find what we’re looking for fast enough.

Some people think of the Bible as a collection of proverbs. Nuggets of wisdom like the old Poor Richards Almanac – “Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.” The Bible does contain wise sayings. It even has an entire book dedicated to Proverbs, written by Solomon, who was known for his wisdom throughout the ancient world. But the Bible contains many other types of literature as well, including history, poetry, laws, warnings, sermons, and letters.

The Bible is a book unlike any other book. While it shares similarities with a self-help book, an encyclopedia, and a collection of proverbs, is it so much more than that! It is a story. And not merely one scene of a story, but a sweeping saga that spans all human history.

This book contains all the elements you would expect in a good story. There are heroes and villains, love and betrayal, plot twists and suspense, revenge and redemption. At its core, the Bible is a story of how the human race rebelled against God, but in great love, God sent his son to rescue us so we could be reconciled and enjoy eternity with him. This story centers on a person, Jesus of Nazareth, and what he did through his life, death, and resurrection to seek and save those who were lost.

This story centers on a person, Jesus of Nazareth, and what he did through his life, death, and resurrection to seek and save those who were lost.

You see, the Bible is not “about us” in a narcissistic way. But as we read it, we discover it actually is about us! It has the uncanny ability to tell us things about ourselves no one else could possibly know. It is like a biography that details where we are from, why we are here, and where we are going. As we read, we actually become characters in this unfolding story of redemption.

The Bible is a wonderful book. I encourage you to pick one up and read it for yourself. But it’s not just about having the right tool. It’s about learning how to use it.

This article first appeared in today’s Minister’s Message of our local newspaper, the Hi Desert Star.

God is Watching

David is one of my favorite characters in the Bible. From a story-telling perspective, we’d call him a dynamic character rather than static character, because he is multi-faceted, and his character undergoes changes over time. David is a warrior, yet a poet. Humble, yet powerful. Restrained, yet not without his weaknesses.

David is a fascinating character in his own right, but best of all, he is the royal ancestor and heavy foreshadowing of Jesus Christ. In spite of David’s flaws, he provides a sneak peak at the coming reign of an even greater king and perfect judge, Jesus Christ.

In 2 Samuel 3, we find an interesting display of David’s leadership. Following the death of King Saul, David is eager to unite the twelve tribes of Israel and even to form a truce with Saul’s former general Abner.

David’s general Joab, on the other hand, is not so sure. He’s probably suspicious of Abner’s intentions, and even more serious, he has a personal vendetta against Abner for the violent death of his brother Asahel (2 Sam. 2:23). Joab soon tricks and murders Abner at Hebron (the ancient ruins of Hebron are pictured above, from my Spring 2000 IBEX trip).

When David learns of Abner’s assassination, he goes out of his way to deny any part in the conspiracy. “I and my kingdom are forever guiltless before the LORD” (2 Sam. 3:28). He publicly grieves for Abner (v. 32-34) and even utters a curse upon his own general Joab (v. 29).

David’s actions do not go unnoticed. “All the people took note of this, and it pleased them. In fact, everything the king did pleased them” (v. 36 CSB). While a leader rarely enjoys these kinds of approval ratings, David’s behavior rightly earns the favor of the crowds. Soon, they will coronate him as their king and submit to his leadership as God’s anointed.

The lesson for today’s leader is to live out your days with a clear conscience. When you make mistakes, own up to them and learn from them, mitigating the damage they might have caused. Meanwhile, do your best to live above reproach, for both God — and others — are watching.

Feeling Stressed Out?

Do you often feel tired, tense, anxious, or burnt out? Would you describe your life as hectic, chaotic, or overwhelmed? More than likely, you’re suffering from a condition called “stress.”

King Solomon says it this way: “What has a man from all the toil and striving of heart with which he toils beneath the sun? For all his days are full of sorrow, and his work is a vexation…” (Ecclesiastes 2:22-23).

It doesn’t matter whether you’re a pastor or a professional athlete, a waiter or a stay at home mom.  Stress is a fact of life, and it can have damaging effects on your body, mind, and soul. Most important, it’s something you must think about and handle biblically.

Would you answer “true” to more than two or three of the following statements?

  • T/F I have trouble sleeping at night
  • T/F I feel like giving up
  • T/F I have very tight muscles
  • T/F I have high blood pressure
  • T/F I get easily irritated by others
  • T/F I regularly skip devotions because I am busy
  • T/F I need medication to calm me down
  • T/F I have difficulty being thankful to God

These may be indications you are stressed. Some of you are thinking, “Duh! I already know I’m stressed! But I don’t have a choice.”

1 Corinthians 10:13 says that every trial and temptation is “common to man.” This means you are not alone! Every trial — including stress — is something others have faced. They have faced and conquered various degrees of this same trial. The verse goes on to say that “God is faithful, and will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able.” God will never give you more than you can bear — with his help and strength.

In the same vein as the excellent Christian Growth & Discipleship Manual by Mack and Johnston, I’ve put together a free counseling guide to help those of us who struggle with stress, anxiety, and burnout. There is help, and there is hope!

Feel free to download and share with others.

80+ Ways to Comfort A Friend Who Is Suffering

There are a many reasons God may allow Christians to suffer, but according to 2 Corinthians 1:4, one of the main reasons is so that we in turn “may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction.”

God is not necessarily disciplining you for some unrepentant sin. Satan is not always responsible for adversity and affliction. In many cases, your trial simply exists to draw you closer to God so you will then be able to comfort others. Trials are a kind of “care-giver boot camp”.

I can personally testify that on many occasions, God has used trials to grow my empathy toward others and my ability to pray for and counsel them. This is one of the benefits of the “gift” of suffering (Phil. 1:29).

Last week, I shared a list of 40 Ways God Comforts Us. This week, I began to jot down ways God can use us to comfort others, and before long, I had come up with over 80 ways. These can be broken down into three major categories – physical comfort, emotional comfort, and spiritual comfort.

What would you add to the list? Think of a friend who is currently suffering. How might you comfort them today?

IDEAS FOR PHYSICAL COMFORT

  1. Mail or deliver a hand-written note
  2. Use the power of touch
  3. Bring flowers or a small gift
  4. Open a window or take them on a walk
  5. Bring a child along to visit
  6. Sing or play music for them
  7. Show a few pictures of family and share stories
  8. Bring a gentle animal along, such as a comfort dog
  9. Treat them with dignity and respect
  10. Smile
  11. Give them eye contact
  12. Laugh together
  13. Cry together
  14. Involve all five senses – taste, touch, smell, sound, sight
  15. Put yourself in their shoes and imagine what it might be like
  16. Make yourself look nice for them
  17. Send a care package with snacks, notes, and a small gift
  18. Take care of some practical need
  19. Look for both natural and medical ways to manage the pain
  20. Help them obtain the best medical care possible, while fixing their hope on God
  21. Get to know their likes and dislikes
  22. Surprise them with some random act of kindness or pleasure
  23. Look for simple ways to make them comfortable and preserve their dignity

IDEAS FOR EMOTIONAL COMFORT

  1. Ask how they’re doing
  2. Send a text message
  3. Call them and let them know you’re thinking about them
  4. Track and recognize a significant date on the calendar (e.g. birthday, anniversary)
  5. Read old letters or journal entries together
  6. Spend unhurried time together
  7. Love them “blindly” and unconditionally
  8. Ask kids to make a craft for them
  9. Read to them
  10. Talk about their hobbies and interests
  11. Play a game or do a craft or puzzle together
  12. Ask them for advice
  13. Ask them for help
  14. Discuss end-of-life decisions
  15. Thank them for the impact they’ve had on your life
  16. Get others to sign a card or note
  17. Be extra patient with them when they’re irritable
  18. Set up clear boundaries – for their sake and yours as a care-giver
  19. Celebrate small victories
  20. Let them know you miss them
  21. Help them put off thoughts of guilt, regret, self-pity, and blame
  22. Beware of trying to “fix” them or give them unsolicited advice

IDEAS FOR SPIRITUAL COMFORT

  1. Pray with them
  2. Ask how you can pray for them
  3. Ask what God has been teaching them through this trial
  4. Pray for them, then let them you’re praying for them
  5. Remind them of the gospel, and how Christ came to put an end to sin and all its consequences
  6. Talk about your heavenly home
  7. Talk about the rapture
  8. Talk about the resurrection and glorified body
  9. Share something God has been teaching you from his word
  10. Recount God’s faithfulness in the past
  11. Remind them Jesus is our high priest who can perfectly sympathize (Heb. 4:15)
  12. Remind them God still has a purpose for them here
  13. Talk about God’s wisdom, love, and power
  14. Encourage them where you see God at work and evidence of grace in their life
  15. Treat them as you would treat Christ (Matt. 25:37-40)
  16. Ask the elders to serve communion to them and pray for them
  17. Provide videos that give mental and spiritual interest
  18. Encourage them to stay involved at church
  19. Read God’s promises to them
  20. Talk about and pray for those who need the gospel
  21. Remind them no trial is wasted, but is only given when necessary (1 Peter 1:6)
  22. Ask forgiveness when you have done wrong, been insensitive, or let them down
  23. Pray the Spirit will bear the fruit of love, joy peace, patience, and self-control
  24. When appropriate, help them examine themselves and confess any sin
  25. Meditate on your identity and union in Christ (Galatians 2:20)
  26. Share missionary stories and Christian biographies
  27. Share counseling materials that can help bring comfort, guidance, and victory
  28. Help them recount God’s many gifts and blessings
  29. Thank God that he has not treated us as we deserve. “Anything better than hell is a blessing.”
  30. Talk about and pray for the next generation
  31. Explain God’s all-sufficient grace (2 Corinthians 12:9-10)
  32. Talk about Jesus, the friend who sticks closer than a brother (Prov. 18:24)
  33. Help them forgive anyone who has done them wrong, stomping out any root of bitterness (Heb. 12:15)
  34. Talk about God’s perfect, final justice (Romans 12:19)
  35. Brainstorm ways they can love their enemy (Romans 12:20-21; Matt. 5:38-48)
  36. Point them to the means of grace (Bible intake, prayer, worship, evangelism, etc.)
  37. Help them develop a theology of suffering

“And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with all” (1 Thessalonians 5:14).

40 Ways God Comforts You

When is the last time you went through a trial and needed comfort from the Lord?

Last Sunday, I preached a message on the God of All Comfort from 2 Corinthians 1:4. It was the first in a series of sermons on the theme of comfort. As I studied, I thought, “How exactly does God comfort us in our suffering?”

While not an exhaustive list, here are forty ways I have experienced God’s comfort, and that God says he will comfort you in all your affliction…

1. He listens to your prayers

Psalm 145:18–20 The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth. He fulfills the desire of those who fear him; he also hears their cry and saves them. The Lord preserves all who love him, but all the wicked he will destroy.

2. He gives incomprehensible peace

Philippians 4:6–7 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

3. He sends friends who bear the burden with you

Galatians 6:2 Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.

4. He provides the church as a place for compassion, prayer, comfort, and healing

Romans 12:15–16 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight.

5. He reminds you this world is not your home

1 Peter 2:11–12 Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul. Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation.

6. He comforts you with his precious promises

2 Peter 1:4 by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.

7. He heightens your anticipation for heaven

Revelation 21:3–4 And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”

8. He equips you to empathize with others and minister more effectively to them

2 Corinthians 1:4 who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

9. He produces endurance, which leads to godly character

Romans 5:3–4 Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope,

10. He bears the fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:22–23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

11. He uses trials to conform you more fully into the image of Christ

Romans 8:29–30 For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.

12. He turns your eyes from temporal things to eternal things

Colossians 3:1–3 If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.

13. He uses your suffering to advance the gospel

2 Corinthians 1:6 If we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation; and if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which you experience when you patiently endure the same sufferings that we suffer.

14. He uses music to comfort your soul

Psalm 51:14–15 Deliver me from bloodguiltiness, O God, O God of my salvation, and my tongue will sing aloud of your righteousness. O Lord, open my lips, and my mouth will declare your praise.

15. He keeps you from wandering astray

Psalm 119:67, 71 Before I was afflicted I went astray, but now I keep your word…71 It is good for me that I was afflicted, that I might learn your statutes.

16. He surrounds you with “survivors” who have finished the race with endurance

Hebrews 12:1–2 Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

17. He encourages you through godly mentors

1 Thessalonians 5:14 And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all.

Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.

18. He blesses you in times of weakness by the service of others

1 Peter 4:10–11 As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.

19. He confirms his fatherly love by disciplining you

Hebrews 12:5–10 And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness.

20. He prunes you to make you more fruitful and holy

John 15:2 Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit.

21. He defends you from the malicious attacks of Satan

Zechariah 3:1–2, 5 Then he showed me Joshua the high priest standing before the angel of the Lord, and Satan standing at his right hand to accuse him. And the Lord said to Satan, “The Lord rebuke you, O Satan! The Lord who has chosen Jerusalem rebuke you! Is not this a brand plucked from the fire?” … And I said, “Let them put a clean turban on his head.” So they put a clean turban on his head and clothed him with garments. And the angel of the Lord was standing by.

22. He reminds you of your frailty

Isaiah 40:6–8 A voice says, “Cry!” And I said, “What shall I cry?” All flesh is grass, and all its beauty is like the flower of the field. The grass withers, the flower fades when the breath of the Lord blows on it; surely the people are grass. The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever.

23. He makes you a trophy of God’s grace before watching angels

1 Peter 1:12 It was revealed to them that they were serving not themselves but you, in the things that have now been announced to you through those who preached the good news to you by the Holy Spirit sent from heaven, things into which angels long to look.

24. He uses you to blaze a trail for the next generation

Psalm 71:17–18 O God, from my youth you have taught me, and I still proclaim your wondrous deeds. So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come.

25. He perfects his power in your weakness

2 Corinthians 12:9–10 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

26. He teaches you gratitude and contentment

Philippians 4:11–13 Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

27. He gives you new opportunities to trust and obey

1 John 5:2–4 By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and obey his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome. For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.

28. He uses your weakness to ensure all glory goes to Jesus

John 3:29–30 The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom’s voice. Therefore this joy of mine is now complete. He must increase, but I must decrease.”

29. He fills you with his Holy Spirit

John 16:7–8 Nevertheless, I tell you the truth: it is to your advantage that I go away, for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you. And when he comes, he will convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment:

30. He offers you intimate fellowship with Christ in his sufferings

Philippians 3:10 that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death,

31. He calms you with his sovereign and complete control of every situation

Romans 8:28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

32. He assures you of final justice

1 Samuel 2:9–10 “He will guard the feet of his faithful ones, but the wicked shall be cut off in darkness, for not by might shall a man prevail. The adversaries of the Lord shall be broken to pieces; against them he will thunder in heaven. The Lord will judge the ends of the earth; he will give strength to his king and exalt the horn of his anointed.”

33. He reminds you that you are never alone

Joshua 1:9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

34. He supplies edifying books to guide and comfort you

2 Timothy 4:13 When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, also the books, and above all the parchments.

35. Amidst the vanity of life, he offers simple pleasures for respite and joy

Ecclesiastes 2:24–26 There is nothing better for a person than that he should eat and drink and find enjoyment in his toil. This also, I saw, is from the hand of God, for apart from him who can eat or who can have enjoyment? For to the one who pleases him God has given wisdom and knowledge and joy, but to the sinner he has given the business of gathering and collecting, only to give to one who pleases God. This also is vanity and a striving after wind.

36. He provides the means of grace to grow your faith and holy walk

1 Timothy 4:7–8 Have nothing to do with irreverent, silly myths. Rather train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.

37. He teaches you about his divine character and attributes

Psalm 68:5 Father of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in his holy habitation.

38. He grows your ability to read and understand of the Bible, much of which was written through adversity

2 Corinthians 2:4 For I wrote to you out of much affliction and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to cause you pain but to let you know the abundant love that I have for you.

39. He raises the credibility of your Christian witness

Acts 20:18–21 And when they came to him, he said to them: “You yourselves know how I lived among you the whole time from the first day that I set foot in Asia, serving the Lord with all humility and with tears and with trials that happened to me through the plots of the Jews; how I did not shrink from declaring to you anything that was profitable, and teaching you in public and from house to house, testifying both to Jews and to Greeks of repentance toward God and of faith in our Lord Jesus Christ.

40. He helps you to become more humble

James 4:6–8 But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.

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