Asking Good Questions

Before you try to counsel someone, you want to make sure you actually know them. This lesson will help you go beyond skin-deep relationships by learning…

  • Four types of questions to break the ice with any new person
  • What scripture means that the heart is like “deep water”
  • How God models good question-asking in Scripture
  • Tips on asking better questions
  • A real-life case study

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Thanks for listening! This is week seven of our 11-week introduction to biblical counseling.

The School of Suffering

Suffering is the gift no one wants, but everyone needs. So let us prayerfully enroll in the school of suffering, expecting to learn valuable lessons along the way.

I love this statement by W. Mackintosh Mackay:

“Experience,’ said a great preacher, ‘teaches fools, but she graduates saints.’ Her graduation ceremony, it must be admitted, is often the close of a long and hard curriculum. If you read the record of our great writers, both secular and sacred, you will be surprised to find of how many of them it was true that they were great sufferers. Of more than poets it is true that ‘they learnt in suffering what they taught in song’. The fragrant name they possess in literature was won out of ‘great tribulation’. The hymns we sing with such comfort to others were born out of bitter hours of pain and disappointment. Our hymnology is largely a martyrology. The men whose words will never die, often died themselves prematurely, or if they lived, lived in what was a living death.” (Expositor’s Dictionary of Texts, v. 2, p. 996)

Just as so many great hymns of the faith, and great men and women of church history, were borne out of suffering, so we can expect trials if we wish to be useful instruments in the Redeemer’s hands. In this week’s lesson we learn…

  • How suffering helps us minister to others
  • How God redeems our suffering for his good purposes
  • The kind of trials we face where comfort is needed
  • What’s the difference between a trial and temptation?
  • An encouraging reminder that for the believer, all suffering is temporary!

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Thanks for listening. This is week six in an 11-week biblical counseling class called, “Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands.” To order a Study Guide please click here

A Leper Is Made Clean (Mark 1:35-45)

“Unclean! Unclean!” a leper would cry if another person drew near. In ancient times, lepers were social outcasts and a threat to public health. The first signs of leprosy on the skin could send the heart into panic and feel like a potential death sentence.

To prevent widespread infection, lepers were instructed to maintain “social distancing” from the crowds. The Law of Moses prescribed, “The leprous person who has the disease shall wear torn clothes and let the hair of his head hang loose, and he shall cover his upper lip and cry out, ‘Unclean, unclean.’ He shall remain unclean as long as he has the disease. He is unclean. He shall live alone. His dwelling shall be outside the camp” (Leviticus 13:45–46).

But on one occasion, a leper broke etiquette and walked straight toward Jesus. Even more surprising, Jesus stretched out his hand and touched him. Last Sunday, in our Bible Study Community, we looked at this remarkable story in Mark 1:35-45. In this passage, we learned…

  • How Jesus balanced a busy ministry life with private devotion to his Father
  • What was Jesus’ top priority in ministry?
  • A bit of background on leprosy
  • A spiritual lesson how Jesus can cleanse each one of us
  • The reason Jesus’ warned, “say nothing to anyone!”

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Thanks for listening. This lesson is from our weekly median adults Bible Study Community. Our class is aimed at those in their 30s-50s, but all are welcome to stop by the Fellowship Hall at 9am on Sundays at Immanuel Baptist Church.

Image Source: Newton, Richard. The Life of Jesus Christ for the Young, Division I & II. Philadelphia: George Barrie, 1880.

Book Review: Attracting Beneficial Bugs to Your Garden

Did you know that 80% of all animals are insects, and of those, 99% are beneficial or benign?

Even if you’re not a bug-lover, Attracting Beneficial Bugs to Your Garden will help you appreciate those hard-working bugs around your property, and why you may want to invite even more by planting certain flowers and shrubs. You’ll also learn why the first sign of an insect pest is usually not a reason to panic.

Since starting the book, I’ve enjoyed spotting many of these characters at work in my own garden, including bees, wasps, butterflies, ladybugs, spiders, and dragonflies.

Walliser begins with an interesting peek into the world of beneficials. I loved this section and was left wanting more! She then provides a detailed catalogue of helpful insects and plants, complete with photos, descriptions, even USDA zones. The green sidebars share interesting articles on subjects ranging from invasive insects, to beetle banks, to native plants.

There is a vast ecosystem, even in the small backyard garden. As a Christian, I attribute this to my Heavenly Father, who made this world with mind-boggling beauty and complexity. I’m thankful for this book that opened my eyes to even more.

Filled with quality photos and vivid behavioral descriptions, Attracting Beneficial Bugs to Your Garden will likely cause you see your garden from a whole new perspective.

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Building Loving Relationships

Whether it’s sharing the gospel, counseling a friend, or rebuking a loved one, before we can speak truth, we must establish a loving relationship. In tonight’s lesson, we discuss…

  • How discipleship is like gardening
  • What are the features of the “ideal growing environment”?
  • Find out who Paul called “one of a kind, who will be genuinely concerned for your welfare.” What a compliment!
  • The first step to a relationship with God
  • The difference between justification and sanctification

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Thanks for listening. This is week five in an 11-week counseling training class called “Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands.” If you found this talk helpful, please consider subscribing to my podcast.

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